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durdencommatyler · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 4:10 pm

Harmless wrote:

There's no way in hell I deserve my nearly-wife. I didn't even know I could play league ball before I met her. I was definitely playing Sunday league, not Premier. We get married on Saturday.

Congrats!

Alex · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 4:34 pm

way to go, harmy

Doug RR · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 4:35 pm

congrats, I was under the impression you were already married

Harmless · **Joined:** Thu Aug 06, 2009 2:53 pm **Posts:** 11395

Cheers everyone. We've been living together for 5 years so may as well be married. We're just sealing the deal on Saturday.

knee tunes · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 4:46 pm

theplatypus wrote:

knee tunes wrote:

I started dating this guy. ...but he's already expressed to me how much he likes me that i don't think I like him so much anymore.
I should say he's over-expressed it. Like "ok, buddy, enough"

Is this what wearing your heart on your sleeve is?

I always thought that expressing one's feelings was a good thing, but I suppose over done is a problem.....which is a shame, really.

A lot of guys do that, and it's terrible. It's a combination of impatience and insecurity. They want so desperately for the relationship to move past the initial 'mutual discovery' stage (because they perceive it as awkward or nervewracking or whatever) that they convince themselves that they're head-over-heels in love, and they're vocal about it. They lay it on thick instead of enjoying that initial nervous thrill and letting the relationship (and their own feelings) grow organically. It reeks of desperation and haste, so it's an understandable turn-off.

You and I should hang out sometime, kt. Just to chat, no pretense. I have some records I think you'll like.

Spoiler: show

fine.

no jazz though.
~
Congratualations, Mr. & Mrs. H!
(no wonder we all thought that knot was already tied!)

62strat · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 4:46 pm

Harmless wrote:

Cheers everyone. We've been living together for 5 years so may as well be married. We're just sealing the deal on Saturday.

Congrats guy. That's exciting stuff.

Self Polluted · **Joined:** Tue May 09, 2006 2:42 pm **Posts:** 8393

Congratulations? This is no occasion for congratulations.

cutuphalfdead · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 5:05 pm

Dead man walking, am I right fellas?

Self Polluted · **Joined:** Tue May 09, 2006 2:42 pm **Posts:** 8393

Hey, congrats on that stomach cancer, pal.

turned2black · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 5:08 pm

I would literally be dead without my wife.

Spike · **Joined:** Sat Oct 16, 2004 11:54 pm **Posts:** 40914

cutuphalfdead wrote:

Dead man walking, am I right fellas?

THERE IT IS

Self Polluted · **Joined:** Tue May 09, 2006 2:42 pm **Posts:** 8393

Spike wrote:

cutuphalfdead wrote:

Dead man walking, am I right fellas?

THERE IT IS

Huh, I missed it the first time around.

px · **Joined:** Wed Nov 30, 2005 4:38 am **Posts:** 18049

May you have a plethora of happy years being equally yoked, Harmless. :-)

knee tunes · **Posted:** Thu Oct 25, 2012 5:35 pm

I had a dream last night that Vedder was my boyfriend and it was perfectly A-OK that he liked me!

I kept thinking to myself, "I can't believe that this isn't a dream"

Harmless · **Joined:** Thu Aug 06, 2009 2:53 pm **Posts:** 11395

cutuphalfdead wrote:

Dead man walking, am I right fellas?

px · **Joined:** Wed Nov 30, 2005 4:38 am **Posts:** 18049

knee tunes wrote:

I had a dream last night that Vedder was my boyfriend and it was perfectly A-OK that he liked me!

I kept thinking to myself, "I can't believe that this isn't a dream"

Whenever my bf starts singing in his forced Vedder/Bob Dylen hybrid voice I always think, "someone please wake me up."

Mecca · **Posted:** Sat Oct 27, 2012 5:33 pm

theplatypus wrote:

knee tunes wrote:

I started dating this guy. ...but he's already expressed to me how much he likes me that i don't think I like him so much anymore.
I should say he's over-expressed it. Like "ok, buddy, enough"

Is this what wearing your heart on your sleeve is?

I always thought that expressing one's feelings was a good thing, but I suppose over done is a problem.....which is a shame, really.

A lot of guys do that, and it's terrible. It's a combination of impatience and insecurity. They want so desperately for the relationship to move past the initial 'mutual discovery' stage (because they perceive it as awkward or nervewracking or whatever) that they convince themselves that they're head-over-heels in love, and they're vocal about it. They lay it on thick instead of enjoying that initial nervous thrill and letting the relationship (and their own feelings) grow organically. It reeks of desperation and haste, so it's an understandable turn-off.

You and I should hang out sometime, kt. Just to chat, no pretense. I have some records I think you'll like.

Spoiler: show

well done

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