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 Post subject: A little help please.
PostPosted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:04 am 
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So, I got this childhood friend that is probrably my best friend, the only one that, after the years, kept beign my friend.
Well, he (Aparently) is passing trough some bad phase of his life, and everytime we got to talk, all he he says is bitching, always bithcing about something, evertime saying that "his life sucks" or "I hate everything".
Even if he got a really good job that HE LIKES, have a great family that is always supporting him and is a fucking great guitar player...
The thing is, this "phase" ias about 2 years now, he was great when he was dating a girl.... But she left him for other dude some years ago...

I know he is depressed because of the bitch that cheated on him... But its been more than 2 years that all I hear is him bitching about his life... Am I beign selfish? I mean, he is my friend, but I'm tired of hear his bitching about how shitty his life is (when its not)...

So, what should I do? What should I say?

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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He's your best friend, you know what to do.



fuck his sister?


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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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Skitch Patterson wrote:
cutuphalfdead wrote:
He's your best friend, you know what to do.



fuck his sister?

She is underage :/

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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That was a serious post.

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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cutuphalfdead wrote:
That was a serious post.

I know, and I think you're right.

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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WOAH WOAH WOAH. I do not care for this avatar change one bit, chudwick.


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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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We helped thuss so much, KL just couldn't resist the free advice. Let's have a Dear Abby sub-forum on the new board.

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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WOAH WOAH WOAH. I do not care for this avatar change one bit, chudwick.

Why the fuck not?

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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Yeah that is one ugly fucking avatar, chud.

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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not for nothing but when did you become the answer to this guys' problems? look, if this person is having issues, that's normal- you can't change that, all you can do it be his friend. otherwise, it's not your issue. not being a dick, just telling you it's not your responsibility, you just be his friend, nothing else to do about it.

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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malice has a point, this not your problem. you should have him register on here and post about it himself.

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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oh shit, registration is closed.
your friend is fucked.

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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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I had a friend who's brother died and as a result my friend became a bit of an addict and also extremely cynical about his own life. A couple month's ago I looked him in the face and told him that we could give him a year to be depressed but at a point he had to pick up and move on again. If it was an issue of him talking about shit more i would be there for that, but the point was he could not go on wasting his own life. I think he is slowly getting better but the bottom line is, that if he completely falls off the wagon I am done with him. I have expectations about my relationships and I expect that people hold me to a standard too. Tell him you love him and to smarten the fuck up. If he can't find a reason to live why should you waste time investing in him?


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 Post subject: Re: A little help please.
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The best friend anyone could have is one that will kindly tell them that their negativity is a total drag.

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