Long story short: When I was 22, I was dating a girl one year older than me. One night after a lot of sex, her and I cuddled in bed and we promised each other something. What, you ask? That if neither of us were married by the time we were 30, we'd marry each other. Well, she's 31 now and isn't married. I turn 30 in February.

Trouble is, she won't return my e-mails. I haven't mentioned anything about our pact, but I think that may be part of the reason she won't correspond with me. So what should I do? Chalk it up as another one of life's broken promises or, out of principle, call her out? The thing is that I don't wanna really marry her (for personal reasons), but she doesn't know that. What would you all do if you were in my shoes?

If this was Saudi Arabia you could probably legally stone her to death.

Just sayin.

jerk off on her face.

whens the last time u were in contact w/ her?

solution:

If she isn't returning your emails she probably doesnt want to marry you either. Don't worry about it.

And you've watched My Best Friend's Wedding too many times.

Haha. That's pretty funny. Just send her one last e-mail,

"Oh, by the way, I book St. James Church for next August. See you soon!"

oh snap here it comes...






fuck her sister

'Why won't you answer my e-mails? Why won't you MAAAARRRYYY MEEEEE? '

haha, people take these pacts seriously? i've made one like this with a few gals.

I'm pretty sure her e-mail today is different than it was 8 years ago.

To answer your questions:

1. I last talked with her about a year and a half ago.
2. I have her current and up to date e-mail address. She read what I sent.
3. I didn't see My Best Friend's Wedding until after we made the pact and didn't put 2 and 2 together.
4. Fuck you Spike

you still love her, don't you friend?

facebook her, and change your status to married see what happens

diabolical!

I've made a pact like that too, but never expected it to be held. Like Spike said; does anyone that that stuff seriously?

yes. but only people named frank

Totally besides the point. She is not acknowledging my e-mails and knows we have this pact, and this is what I'm concerned about. If the roles were reversed, I'd at least have the decency to e-mail her back and tell her it's a no-go, for whatever reason. You don't make pacts that serious and then disappear when the time comes to pay your debt.

See post above.

Frankie Poo, even I've done things like that. But I would never wait until I'm 30, call the girl up, and say "hey remember when we made that pact when we were 22? Well we're 30 now and still single, so...".