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I have a really close friend. She is attractive and full of life and we get along great but she is engaged to a complete dumbass. She is a lot smarter than he is and is def. the bread winner. Everytime we all go out to clubs or to drink he always does something to embarass her or gets us kicked out. She does have low self esteem and I have tried to help her with that but they always get in fights but the next day it is everyone else's fault and not his. The last straw with me was when we all when out and there was a girl there who he didn't know at all, but he gave her $2 and said "Now you owe me a blow job" he is younger than us. He is only 22 but that isn't an excuse. Of course the girl he said she will never hang out with us when he is around and I don't blame her but the next day it was "oh well she shouldn't judge him for that" I am at wits end. I am at the point where I don't want to even hang out with her because it frustrates me that someone I have respect for someone who could be with someone who has no respect for anything. And I hate that excuse "well he was drunk" all being drunk does is let who you really are out, the rest is the facade. We joke and have a great time when it is just us two but when we are with him she is a different person. Not as funny and always on edge.
Joined: Sun Oct 17, 2004 12:47 am Posts: 46000 Location: Reasonville
just stop hanging out with her if it bothers you as much as you say it does.
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The last straw with me was when we all when out and there was a girl there who he didn't know at all, but he gave her $2 and said "Now you owe me a blow job"
Joined: Sun Oct 17, 2004 1:36 am Posts: 449 Location: Tomorrow Never Knows
Little things that he does bothers me too. It was three girls and him and I in the car. She girl who he asked to blow him was driving. I would have offered the front seat to one of the girls with us because that is the polite thing to do but he didn't even offer it to his gf. he just said "I got shotgun" how lame?
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mowbs wrote:
jkc4118 wrote:
The last straw with me was when we all when out and there was a girl there who he didn't know at all, but he gave her $2 and said "Now you owe me a blow job"
what the fuck?
seriously, how's he gonna steal your line mowbs
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Joined: Sun Oct 17, 2004 1:36 am Posts: 449 Location: Tomorrow Never Knows
warehouse wrote:
mowbs wrote:
jkc4118 wrote:
The last straw with me was when we all when out and there was a girl there who he didn't know at all, but he gave her $2 and said "Now you owe me a blow job"
Joined: Sun Oct 17, 2004 12:47 am Posts: 46000 Location: Reasonville
Theresa wrote:
all types of girls are morons
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I know but I was mainly trying to state that she is way out of his league. Didn't mean of offend.
offend? no...my point is, this shit goes beyond looks...people can be the coolest most awesome friends but will be totally different in a relationship. i call it relationship behavior...all kinds of needs come out in these situations...maybe your friend has low self esteem and even though everyone tells her how pretty she is, she doesn't feel good inside...could be
Joined: Sun Oct 17, 2004 12:47 am Posts: 46000 Location: Reasonville
i quote my good friend jared diamond:
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we may subconsciously expect people to be homogeneously "good" or "bad," as if there were a single quality of virtue that should shine through every aspect of a person's behavior. if we find people virtuous or admirable in one respect, it troubles us to find them not so in another respect. it is difficult for us to acknowledge that people are not consistent, but are instead mosaics of traits formed by different sets of experiences that often do not correlate with each other.
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