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its a she. I hope so. Long story short, whoopsie baby with her long term dead beat boyfriend when they wereo n again off again. Ive had lots of experience with my nephew who is now two so im ready for this.
But at some point I hope she calls me daddy. She's beyond adorable and probably my best friend right now. Which i guess is kind of depressing as well.
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this bit of news is most heartening.
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you sir, are a gentleman. stepping up to the plate and looking positive. it may be a rocky road, but at least you are doing the right thing. pat yourself on the back!
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Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2004 7:37 pm Posts: 15767 Location: Vail, CO Gender: Male
warehouse wrote:
62strat wrote:
lennytheweedwhacker wrote:
Let her know around the age of 3 that you aren't her real father.
18th birthday present.
is this a joke?
Should I wait till she is 21 so she can drink away her issues or?
Yea its a daunting task but I love my girlfriend and it is a package deal. I love kids and my schedule really hasn't changed much anyway. Plus the sex is beyond great... just saying.
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im not telling you what to do, but she can still call you dad, you can be her father figure, and she can know you are not her biological dad. just sayin'
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warehouse wrote:
im not telling you what to do, but she can still call you dad, you can be her father figure, and she can know you are not her biological dad. just sayin'
It was a joke. She will know as soon as she can understand this.
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62strat wrote:
warehouse wrote:
im not telling you what to do, but she can still call you dad, you can be her father figure, and she can know you are not her biological dad. just sayin'
It was a joke. She will know as soon as she can understand this.
how long have u and the mom been together?
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You do understand that if you and your girlfriend break up within the next year or two, it is still your responsibility to care for and nurture this child?
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lennytheweedwhacker wrote:
You do understand that if you and your girlfriend break up within the next year or two, it is still your responsibility to care for and nurture this child?
Kind of yes.
We've known eachother for a few years now, things started getting heavy about 5 months ago.
You do understand that if you and your girlfriend break up within the next year or two, it is still your responsibility to care for and nurture this child?
Kind of yes.
We've known eachother for a few years now, things started getting heavy about 5 months ago.
Have you begun to look at schools in the area? I would recommend a private school.
Joined: Mon Oct 18, 2004 7:37 pm Posts: 15767 Location: Vail, CO Gender: Male
lennytheweedwhacker wrote:
62strat wrote:
lennytheweedwhacker wrote:
You do understand that if you and your girlfriend break up within the next year or two, it is still your responsibility to care for and nurture this child?
Kind of yes.
We've known eachother for a few years now, things started getting heavy about 5 months ago.
Have you begun to look at schools in the area? I would recommend a private school.
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how long have u and the mom been together?