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Lloyd Dobler · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 11:17 am

Issue: 2 week fizzled relationship. I cared and focused. Didn't work out. Had a corporate birthday party for September birthdays. Gave her gifts at that time. Her birthday is actually today.
Question: Should I send a text or something for a happy birthday? I know I care and wished it didn't end, but I do feel a little cheated since she was seeing other people apparently for this brief period. I guess I would feel a little bigger if I caved and just sent something even if there were no reply.

Peace,

jared

Alex · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 11:59 am

Lloyd Dobler wrote:

Issue: 2 week fizzled relationship. I cared and focused. Didn't work out. Had a corporate birthday party for September birthdays. Gave her gifts at that time. Her birthday is actually today.
Question: Should I send a text or something for a happy birthday? I know I care and wished it didn't end, but I do feel a little cheated since she was seeing other people apparently for this brief period. I guess I would feel a little bigger if I caved and just sent something even if there were no reply.

Peace,

jared

are you still a secular humanist?

god bless,

stephen

px · **Joined:** Wed Nov 30, 2005 4:38 am **Posts:** 18049

Don't send a text. On to the next one, sucker.

PS: GREAT thread title.

Owl_Farmer · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 12:32 pm

text her if you feel you need closure or whatever, just don't expect anything in return.

theplatypus · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 1:20 pm

I'd probably just post on her facebook wall. "Hey happy birthday, hope all is well" or some such shit.

Doug RR · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 1:22 pm

it was 2 weeks and she was seeing other people.

Skitch Patterson · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 1:23 pm

pee in her butt

px · **Joined:** Wed Nov 30, 2005 4:38 am **Posts:** 18049

Skitch, don't be such a beast. Gawd.

Rebar · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 1:34 pm

Doug RR wrote:

it was 2 weeks and she was seeing other people.

RIP

tight paths.

given2trade · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 2:27 pm

I'd like to hear more about the corporate birthday party and what gifts you exchanged.

Skitch Patterson · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 2:28 pm

given2trade wrote:

I'd like to hear more about the corporate birthday party and what gifts you exchanged.

i heard darius rucker from Hootie and the Blowfish performed!

cutuphalfdead · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 4:12 pm

Fuck her sister.

fitzy · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 6:06 pm

did she give you a pen?

Spike · **Joined:** Sat Oct 16, 2004 11:54 pm **Posts:** 40914

fitzy wrote:

did she give you a pen?

Pizza the Hut · **Posted:** Tue Sep 14, 2010 11:27 pm

You were in a 2 week fling and you gave her a gift for her birthday? Oh for fucks sake.

Mecca · **Posted:** Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:43 am

fitzy wrote:

did she give you a pen?

dont be a guy, be a man

Pizza the Hut · **Posted:** Wed Sep 15, 2010 12:47 am

Don't text her. If she doesn't respond, you'll feel even more like crap.

Facebook message her asking to give you back the Avocado album you got her for her birthday back.

px · **Joined:** Wed Nov 30, 2005 4:38 am **Posts:** 18049

Listen to, and do, what Lizzie says.

Wes C. Addle · **Joined:** Sat Oct 16, 2004 11:17 pm **Posts:** 45120

Just forget about it, chalk it up to one of those life lessons.

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