Joined: Fri Mar 24, 2006 11:39 pm Posts: 9251 Location: Somewhere Expansive Gender: Male
ugh I am in a bad relationship and a pussy. I am not perfect either but she is very insane. she resorts to screaming and getting overwhelmed at every turn. She fights like a child. I feel bad for her kind of. I love her and want to take care of her. I think if she could get shit under control she would be worth it. Maybe I am realizing right now as I type this that I can do better. Doesn't mean i will of course. It is pretty confusing she is so hostile and crazy but tells me she still wants me. How does that work??? gahhh
Joined: Fri Mar 24, 2006 11:39 pm Posts: 9251 Location: Somewhere Expansive Gender: Male
the article made me feel warm.
but ugh it aint that bad, i just, i cant believe that she never backs down. She is so certain of herself. I don't get either why she would be normal for a week and then go fucking nuts just because she is tired from work. She screamed so much that her brother came downstairs and then i had to fight with that dough head. It's so humiliating. Being in a relationship is good for me i know. It makes me much calmer in general. I don't really have any other back up options. like i do but im not sure they are right either. I try to talk to her calmly but I am not even allowed to be honest and I don't feel like backing down this time. If I don't back down she will probably leave. I don't really know what to do. I will admit I am stubborn too, but not like that. I am quite confused. How do you talk to someone when things get really bad in a relationship? is there like a trick or format to this shit?
Joined: Sun Oct 17, 2004 3:08 am Posts: 22978 Gender: Male
dev, you spend far too much time on the internet for you to be 100% picky. Between the 4 major catagories, Intelligence, Attractiveness, Caring, Sane, the odds are you have to sacrifice one. If she hits the first 3, i don't really think you are a position to dismiss someone at that 75% threshold.
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