sorry if this a really stupid question I have no real experience with nero and I want to burn a pearl jam show but how do I set it up so the menus that come with it are menus on the dvd?

this might help.

http://forums.theskyiscrape.com/viewtopic.php?t=453

Burning DVD filestructure with Nero:
If you downloaded a DVD from a torrent you might get a DVD file structure instead of the ISO-Image that was described above. Generally a DVD filestructure looks like this:

AUDIO_TS (folder)
(empty)

VIDEO_TS (folder)
VIDEO_TS.BUP (Backup of xy.IFO)
VIDEO_TS.IFO (DVD Information File, like Chapter information, audio streams ...)
VIDEO_TS.VOB
VTS_01_0.BUP
VTS_01_0.IFO (Menu Information File, Navigation structure ...)
VTS_01_0.VOB (Menu Video files / Menu images)
VTS_01_1.VOB (Show Video file 1)
VTS_01_2.VOB (Show Video file 2)
...

To burn a DVD filestructure Nero is the easiest way to go. Start Nero Burning ROM and select DVD-Video from the dialog box. Press "new" and you should get 2 browser windows. On the left side you see the DVD directories AUDIO_TS and VIDEO_TS, on the right side you can browse your harddrive. To burn a disc just drag and drop all files from the downloaded directory to the VIDEO_TS directory in the DVD filestructure. After that just name the disc and follow the NERO burning dialog.

it doesn't play on my dvd player ( playback feature may not be available on this disc)