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 Post subject: Breaking up a fight
PostPosted: Thu Mar 04, 2010 6:58 pm 
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Another moral dilemma type question. Let's say you're in charge of a class. Fight breaks out. One kid is a bully/instigator. You saw him start the fight. The other kid is the bullied/victim. The bully is pounding the other kid. As you break up the fight, would it be wrong it to break it up in such a way that you restrain the bully and intentionally let the other kid get a couple of quick shots in before you end the whole thing?

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i don't find violence in itself to be an absolute wrong.

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So it'd be okay for a teacher to knowingly and purposely help one kid be violent towards another?

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25 yrs ago you could have gotten away with it..not today, sadly


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You could get away with it.

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aprilfifth wrote:
You could get away with it.


not with today's parents that find out about things like that....


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aprilfifth wrote:
So it'd be okay for a teacher to knowingly and purposely help one kid be violent towards another?

assuming the violence is not excessive, i see no reason why not.

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Doug RR wrote:
aprilfifth wrote:
You could get away with it.


not with today's parents that find out about things like that....

A. Let's pretend we're in a ghetto. This is going to sound bad, but do you really think the mom of bad kid who gets in fights all the time is going to make much of an issue over something she'll think the kid is probably lying about anyway? That's to say the kid even says something.

B. How do they prove you did anything intentionally? Breaking up a fight by yourself in a way that doesn't allow one kid to get an undefended blow is tough.

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dkfan9 wrote:
aprilfifth wrote:
So it'd be okay for a teacher to knowingly and purposely help one kid be violent towards another?

assuming the violence is not excessive, i see no reason why not.

any sort of violence in a classroom is excessive. if you were breaking a fight up in a bar or on the street you could get away with this, but not as a teacher

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warehouse wrote:
dkfan9 wrote:
aprilfifth wrote:
So it'd be okay for a teacher to knowingly and purposely help one kid be violent towards another?

assuming the violence is not excessive, i see no reason why not.

any sort of violence in a classroom is excessive. if you were breaking a fight up in a bar or on the street you could get away with this, but not as a teacher

So is it the kind of thing that is technically wrong that you would never officially endorse, but you'd look the other way if it actually happened since the kid probably deserves it anyway?

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aprilfifth wrote:
Doug RR wrote:
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You could get away with it.


not with today's parents that find out about things like that....

B. How do they prove you did anything intentionally? Breaking up a fight by yourself in a way that doesn't allow one kid to get an undefended blow is tough.


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Lol. Well if I ever follow through on this fantasy, I guess you'll see this thread disappear.

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aprilfifth wrote:
warehouse wrote:
dkfan9 wrote:
aprilfifth wrote:
So it'd be okay for a teacher to knowingly and purposely help one kid be violent towards another?

assuming the violence is not excessive, i see no reason why not.

any sort of violence in a classroom is excessive. if you were breaking a fight up in a bar or on the street you could get away with this, but not as a teacher

So is it the kind of thing that is technically wrong that you would never officially endorse, but you'd look the other way if it actually happened since the kid probably deserves it anyway?


I totally endorse the idea but wouldnt want to lose a job over it


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aprilfifth wrote:
warehouse wrote:
dkfan9 wrote:
aprilfifth wrote:
So it'd be okay for a teacher to knowingly and purposely help one kid be violent towards another?

assuming the violence is not excessive, i see no reason why not.

any sort of violence in a classroom is excessive. if you were breaking a fight up in a bar or on the street you could get away with this, but not as a teacher

So is it the kind of thing that is technically wrong that you would never officially endorse, but you'd look the other way if it actually happened since the kid probably deserves it anyway?

i guess thats a fair way to put it. i mean, who doesnt like seeing a bully get beat up? but at the same time if its happening in your classroom you have to stop it.

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Fuck morals (in this instance).

I'm gonna restrain the bully first and pretend I'm struggling to do it so the other kid can get a few more shot in there.

Though I doubt the other kid would keep throwing once the teacher steps in, especially if he didn't start it (yeah, I know it's a hypothetical).

Few things make me happier than watching a bully get his.

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Though warehouse is right. "Look the other way", but only for a sec...

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