I just wanted to say hi in my last night alone with my very beautiful computer.
Any advice from the fellow married PJ fans? (Don’t tell me DONT DO IT, too late for that)
I would invite some of you guys but I don’t want PJEV2003 doing his stapler thing in the front door and trying to upgrade his table closer to the band.
Anyway…... I’m not nervous but I do feel I’m kind of a loner and marriage is a big step. I wanted to get drunk today but here I am…. Posting shit in the interweb.
Discuss? jajajaja
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First off..congrats. Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
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porchball wrote:
First off..congrats. Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
Damn, you speak the truth! I've only been married about 9 months and your advice is perfect. Also, random flowers are always a good thing especially when she becomes pregnant.
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First off..congrats. Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
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advice, i'm a wedding photographer. DO NOT SMASH HER WITH THE CAKE. Be gentle and sweet there. Besides 2/3 of cake-smashers end in divorce (it is true). tell her you love her every day and grab her ass for fun, trust me, it works. I've been going strong nine years later this month.
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rich wrote:
advice, i'm a wedding photographer. DO NOT SMASH HER WITH THE CAKE. Be gentle and sweet there. Besides 2/3 of cake-smashers end in divorce (it is true). tell her you love her every day and grab her ass for fun, trust me, it works. I've been going strong nine years later this month.
great advise rich
What about when she's washing dishes in the sink. Walk up behind her and
advice, i'm a wedding photographer. DO NOT SMASH HER WITH THE CAKE. Be gentle and sweet there. Besides 2/3 of cake-smashers end in divorce (it is true). tell her you love her every day and grab her ass for fun, trust me, it works. I've been going strong nine years later this month.
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porchball wrote:
First off..congrats. Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
I've been married 3 1/2 years, and this dude nailed it.
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Glory's Door wrote:
porchball wrote:
First off..congrats. Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
I've been married 3 1/2 years, and this dude nailed it.
man, i'm not married and that sounds spot on, even just in most relationships.
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porchball wrote:
First off..congrats. Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
O yea its called the scream machine.... .. makes me want to go out and tie the knot right now
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Congrats
Porchball's advice is good.
Always tell her that you love her, and if you find yourself having to force yourself to say it sit down immediatley and figure out why that is.
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rich wrote:
advice, i'm a wedding photographer. DO NOT SMASH HER WITH THE CAKE. Be gentle and sweet there. Besides 2/3 of cake-smashers end in divorce (it is true). tell her you love her every day and grab her ass for fun, trust me, it works. I've been going strong nine years later this month.
So it increases your odds of divorce by about...10% then?
First off..congrats. Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
Best advice in the history of the internet.
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Congratulations Jurd - Porchball got it spot on.
Make sure you take in the day - It's a pretty huge one and should be enjoyed.
My wedding day is the third best day of my life - was the best but then a couple of births came along and topped it!
I'm sitting here with a cold crownie (that's a great beer for you non-Aussie's) toasting you as I type.
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Hey Jurd,
Good luck, and congrats!
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Listen..listen...listen be honest all the time..unless she asks how she looks in her new dress (always awesome no matter what) Get use to coming home from work and even though you want complete quiet she bombards you with every miniscule detail of her day. Just shake your head up and down...mixed in with the occasional uh hu...that sucks...wow...thats interesting. Make time for yourself with your friends..it's important to have some time for yourself...just remember she comes first all the time. If you are out with your friends late...just call her and let her know your okay. Don't try to win arguments...you can't win. Tell her you love her every day. Kiss her goodbye every time you leave the house. Don't get too pissed when the sex slows down...It's more than likely not anything you're doing. She's probably just stressed...give her time and don't force it. It's a roller coaster ride....an awesome one.
especially when she becomes pregnant.
She hates that
.. makes me want to go out and tie the knot right now
