Mmkay I'm 25. I want to have sex really bad but I still don't have a girlfriend and blah blah blah. I KNOW how to not have sex with a girl that I JUST met. I like to go out with a chick for awhile before I do anything like sex. But when I do have a galfriend for like a year I would like to have sex. But I am always freaking out about getting her pregnant! But I can't wait if I find someone that I like for awhile and stuff! And like I would like to do oral. But I am scared if I will get herpes or something. I'm always so paranoid about this!

pregnancy and stds are real possibilities

and there are new STDS being invented everyday.

OMG YOU COULD GET PREGNANT!

I gotta say though pregnancy scares are about the worst thing ever in life. especially when it is with someone you don't like

I hear you, Dev. Not fun.

Imagine a nightmare where aids is a physical character and it is chasing you down the street holding a broken condom.

I'm pretty sure that Dev would have sex with you.

I'm pretty sure that I would saw off your head and fuck the hole between your shoulders if I could get away with it littlewing

"Heather Corinna replies:
Before I dig in here, I want to make clear that I don't think there is any one right age, right time, or right kind of relationship for everyone when it comes to what makes sex right or best. That varies from person-to-person a lot, and isn't usually based on something as simple as only how old we are. I do think -- and working with people and their sex lives for as long as I have, feel comfortable saying I know -- there are some core things that tend to make for best sexual choices with people of every age, though, so I want to address some of those with you. I also want to present some things which are going to be more challenging for you with partnered sex at your age, things which often won't be as challenging just a few short years from now.

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holy shit they answered you

never back down from a shtick tree, that is basic comedy law

I never claimed to be a comedian, Devon.

this is RM, we don't have sex...

You know what? I bet if you did this, and secretly taped it, one of your professors would consider you brooding and deep. The pressure to drop out of film school would instantly evaporate. Just remember Dev, it's not gay unless the balls touch.

I now kind of crave a thread about Dev and film school...

Just remember Littlewing, that I would really do it.

I get the worry about STDs... but pregnancy? So what if she gets pregnant? That's what stairs are for.