we were having some completely great marathon sex this past weekend, things were pretty heated and BAM, he wanted me to stick something up his bum...does this mean hes gay? he knows im freaked out about it, so we are kinda not getting along right now..this isnt "normal" for straight guys is it? or maybe im just ignorant.

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Um... wow.

Was another man's penis involved? If not then it's not gay. Also, why would you be mad at him?

well no, another penis wasnt involved physically, but it was talked about. and not by me.

In my opinion, my asshole is for out-going traffic only. But that's just my take on it.

Whatever blows your hair back, I guess.

Personally I would not ask for anything like that. If you are trying to get me to stop having marathon sex, that suggestion would work.

This town needs enema

huh?

Pardon

I wouldn't freak out just yet, as it's really more common than you may think. The male "g spot" if you will, is located in the ass. So the better question is, why don't more guys try it? And maybe you can buy him a dildo or vibrator for his birthday or something, and use it on him.

he was talking about guys, well mainly his friend, and some of the stuff said grossed me out. i can handle alot, and im a bit, well alot freaky too, but i think he has taken it a bit too far.
maybe i shoud talk to him about it, but everytime i do, i cant finish what i started because i end up crying or pissed.

So... is he suggesting a threesome, describing his friends weird penis tricks? What is this all about?

i think its beautiful that you and your boyfriend, washmykev, can share the same message board

good grief bammer, how do you have the time for ANOTHER account?

No, a lot of guys like their ass tickled or whatever.

I'd watch for other clues instead, if this was your only one...he's not gay.

And even if he is into guys, he might just be bi-curious. I think if you really want answers you should just ask him if he still wants to be with you.